It isn't until one directly buys - or better yet, crafts - a tool, and then uses that tool regularly to maintain one's well-being, when the bond is fully formed and one feels the pain of any sort of damage to that tool. To artificially strike up this type of bond for someone who has not claimed a direct spiritual ownership or at least stewardship of the tool - or more broadly resource - it is usually the case that some sort of social sanction or application of force is required, to forcefully stimulate the pain and fear of damage and degradation.
Scaling this out, the way we've chosen to structure ownership and localized control, with all of the class and ownership fragmentation that that entails, is at the same time a means for fragmenting the movement of perception and pain itself. A class rests atop the other, and directs its activity for its own benefit, while feeling nothing of its pain.
